April 27, 2024
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What Is the 'Ick,' and Should It Guide Your Dating Decisions?

A close cousin of “moist” in my book, “ick” is a word that sounds a little gross to say—and that’s fitting for its definition in the context of relationships. The “ick,” which has become a trending concept on TikTok, refers to any kind of highly visceral turnoff or the experience of being repulsed by said […]

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4 tips for reining in your know-it-all tendencies (even if you really do think you know it all)

Knowledge may well be power, and when you’re incredibly informed (or at least think you are), you want to share your know-how with everyone in your presence. And what’s wrong with that? Well, when you steamroll every conversation with your know-it-all opinions, it’s a bad look that can come across as equal parts rude, pretentious, […]

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How To Support Loved Ones Through Identity Changes

During lockdown in Phoenix last year, Theo Grace Quest found herself thinking about her name. Theo identifies as nonbinary, and her given name is Grace, but she didn’t feel like it actually fit her. (“I’m not a graceful person,” she muses.) So, in a pandemic-imposed exile, she had the space to imagine a new name. […]

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99 things to do after a breakup that are actually healthy and healing

The morning after my most recent breakup from a serious relationship, I woke up, wiped off my mascara-stained face and wrote out advice for myself in list form. Item one read: “Breakups are excruciating as a default, you can’t escape that.” While that bummer of a truism isn’t the most empowering, I charged on with […]

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7 Bedroom Solutions Everyone With a Tossing, Turning Bedmate Needs

If you’re sharing a bed with someone dreamy, but their snoring makes your nights a living hell, feel free to dump them. Or, you could always take solace in remembering that many people have trouble sleeping because of their partner—whether because of tossing and turning, quarrels over the comforter, snoring, or anything else. Of course, […]

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5 Egotistical Personality Traits (And How To Handle Them)

Placing yourself on a pedestal is often both a valid and valiant act, requiring you to surface your own beliefs publicly, advocate for them, and actively pursue your needs and wants. But if you’ve ever met someone who seems to have taken up permanent residence on that pedestal, you may have an egotist on your […]

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I’m Trans and Nonbinary: Here’s What I Want Cis People To Know About Having Sex With Me

As a trans, nonbinary, agender person, navigating sex and pleasure is often challenging. That’s in large part a reflection of the lacking sex education young people get (if they get any at all) and patriarchal perspectives about sex and dating that center the cisgender, heterosexual experience. An effect of this landscape is that many cisgender […]

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There Are 5 Types of Couples—Here’s How Each Can Best Navigate Conflict

If you’re in a committed relationship and never argue with your partner, well, congratulations, you magnificent Love Unicorn. For the rest of us, knowing how to navigate conflict effectively, respectfully, and productively is crucial for long-term relationship health because arguments are pretty inevitable. And there’s certainly more than one way to go about that: As […]

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Finally, a science-backed reason to feel great about only having sex on the weekends

You’re up early for a workout, working all day, and by the time you’ve made dinner and gotten yourself ready for the next day, you’re probably ready to crash. So even the thought of weekday sex? LOL. Who has time for that? Even if you’re in a committed relationship or you live with your partner, […]

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The handful of personality traits emotionally intelligent friends tend to share

Gold-medal-worthy friends remember to ask about your big work presentation. They slide into your DMs and pick up the phone to chat with you and make plans for real face time (rather than mere FaceTime). Put simply, they gas you up. Then there are friends who are meh at best. According to one friendship expert, […]

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