May 20, 2024
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Sex Relationship

I’m Trans and Nonbinary: Here’s What I Want Cis People To Know About Having Sex With Me

As a trans, nonbinary, agender person, navigating sex and pleasure is often challenging. That’s in large part a reflection of the lacking sex education young people get (if they get any at all) and patriarchal perspectives about sex and dating that center the cisgender, heterosexual experience. An effect of this landscape is that many cisgender […]

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Your no-nonsense guide to pegging, from sexperts who know the ins and outs

Since sex-ed left a ton of us high and dry (like, very dry) when it comes to implementing info we can really use, let’s just cut right to the chase about pegging: Originally, “the term refers specifically to a sexual practice in which a woman performs anal sex on a man, using a strap-on dildo,” […]

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Your A-to-O glossary of sex terms you'll never have to nervously Google again

You thought you’d learned your sex ABCs—or, rather, ACGs (that’s your A-spot, C-spot, and G-spot)—a long time ago. But then, you hear someone talking about cuckolding, queening, or a Wartenberg wheel, and you suddenly feel like you’re learning a new language. The thing is, when it comes to sex terms, you essentially are constantly learning […]

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Can a Sex Fast Actually Boost Your Intimacy With a Partner?

It’s a simple truth that the more you do something, the less novel and exciting it becomes—and sex with the same partner is no exception. While it’s certainly possible to reinvigorate a not-so-steamy sex life by switching up the timing, positions, and locations of your sessions, or even bringing a new toy into bed, perhaps […]

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I'm a sex writer, and this intimacy app answered sex questions I never knew to ask

Eventually there comes a time when nobody wants to hear about your sex life anymore. I mean, I’m sure that’s not true for everybody (my experience in that realm is probably different than, say, J. Lo’s). But for many of us—especially those of us who once relied on our sexual misadventures to entertain friends at […]

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Sex educators want you to have pillow talk after sex (because postgame analysis isn't just a sports thing)

Even dating back to my first-ever kisses, I adhered to a specific post-smooch routine: Call up my best friend and tell her about it in excruciating detail: the saliva situation, tongue use, hand placement, you name it. The debrief was as thorough as the kiss itself. And now, even as someone with a sex life […]

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