May 19, 2024
Chicago 12, Melborne City, USA
Sex Relationship

'Empathic Concern' Can Lead To Empty Promises—Here's How To Avoid its Pitfalls

When someone you care about is going through a difficult time, it can feel like second nature to promise you’ll support them through it. You might say things like “I’m here for you” or “I’ll make sure we catch up every week.” But as weeks pass and your life goes on, new priorities emerge, and […]

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The surprising health benefit of being in a relationship with an optimist

In news I hope my boyfriend doesn’t read, it turns out that having an optimistic partner can lead to better health outcomes. New research out of Michigan State University, published in the Journal of Personality, found that being in a relationship with an optimist might actually help to decrease the chances of developing Alzheimer’s disease […]

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Boost workplace happiness with humor—but only the Ellen DeGeneres kind

The first few months I spent at my big-girl, full-time job, I was terrified about letting my sense of humor loose on any coworkers. I’d been previously indoctrinated into believing a desk is a space for serious business emails (Sincerely, Official Member of the Workforce) and torturous mental obstacle courses (read: spreadsheets). While there’s certainly […]

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What Is Freudenfreude, And How Can It Improve Connection?

Obviously, you want to surround yourself with people who want the best for you; those who relish in your struggles or even misery simply aren’t team members you need making up your starting lineup for tackling life. But while it would be wise to avoid those who are prone to schadenfreude—the German term that describes […]

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Relationship Pros' 4 Tips for Giving Constructive Feedback

Ever worked really hard on a work presentation that went well but wished someone would’ve told you where there was room for improvement so you could make it even better next time? When we dedicate effort to an endeavor, we want to do well, and it’s human nature to feel that if we’re not improving, […]

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Low-Key Weddings Are In, and That's Good for Mental Health

After a dismal two-plus years of pandemic times, you’d be an anomaly if COVID-19 didn’t change your life in some meaningful way. For one demographic of folks, it’s meant adjusting, postponing, or flat-out canceling their wedding (or wedding reception, at least). But now, with restrictions steadily easing, a wedding boom is upon us: The backlog […]

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